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Why facial cumshot is not just a porn practice
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10 December 2012

Associated with pornographic films, facial ejaculation remains a taboo practice. It can be a source of pleasure, for the man but also for the woman — explanations in six questions and answers.

1. Is facial ejaculation born of porn?

Facial ejaculation has long remained discreet, according to Nathalie Giraud Desforges, a sex therapist. "This practice is absent from the Kama-Sutra while there are tips to feast on female ejaculation," says the expert. Similarly, "the facial ejaculation was little invited in the brothels of Pompeii and completely deserted from the first porn movies in which we saw dildos yet." On the other hand, the Marquis de Sade did not deprive himself in his writings. In the Philosophy in the Boudoir, which dates from 1795, one reads: "It is necessary that the breast and the face of your friend are flooded with proofs of the virility of your brother."

Facial ejaculation, however, has a real media coverage from the 1980s, through pornographic films. "If they did not invent, they have standardized," says Ovidie, a former actress of the X and now director. Facial ejaculation has appeared in porn movies for the sake of showing sperm, explains Nathalie Giraud Desforges. "We sought to give credibility to the harder by proving their ejaculation, even if they have a pump to double volume." Today, the videos X do not escape this final bouquet. Anthony, 30, who watches a lot of porn streaming on the Internet, says: "It's always the same story: blowjob, missionary, doggy style, sodomy, facial cumshot." A practice that has become a flagship porn movie.

2. Why does facial ejaculation bother?

Revealed via pornographic films, the facial cumshot is now associated with them. And that's what blocks Melanie, 30, who does not want to test "because it's too much movie of ass," unlike Nathalie, 50, who loves it and assumes "that the house, between us, we are not in a movie X."

The dominated-dominant relationship is also pointed out. Marion, 31, testifies: "I love a man to take over, but facial ejaculation is the step I can not take." Melanie agrees: "At this point, it's not dominance anymore, it's humiliation." This dominated-dominant relationship does not only bother women. Men are also affected. "Some have the feeling of dirtying their spouse," says Alexandra Hubin, sexologist and founder of Positive Sexology. "And when they are fathers, it's worse; they see the mother of their children and fear to disrespect her."

The fantasy of domination, according to a 2014 study by the Journal of Sexual Medicine, is widespread, whether one is male or female, and is not reprehensible. So why does facial ejaculation seem to be out of play? Because the place that receives sperm is not trivial. "It's heavy with meaning, the face," says Ovidie. "When ejaculation is oral, it is an extension of pleasure in duet. The face is something else, it recalls the spit, the slap. The director continues and reveals behind the scenes of a shoot: "The man touches himself off camera to ensure his ejaculation and only the face of the girl -presented as a receptacle- is filmed. That's why we find it degrading.

3. Does facial ejaculation necessarily imply a relationship of domination?

For Nathalie Giraud Desforges, a sex therapist, the dominated-dominant relationship is inevitable. But it's not harmful. "When both partners agree and have their free will, the dominant-dominated relationship is chosen rather than suffered, and it can even be reversed." For Alexandra Hubin, the dominated-dominant relationship fades when the pleasure is shared, though it exists visually.

The two experts come together: once we are consenting, we enter a frame, the game. Sarah, 35, practices facial ejaculation. The dominated-dominant relationship, she forgets: "We are just two lovers in a role play." Cathy, 30, does not see a dominated-dominant relationship either: "To receive one's sperm is like being the mistress of one's ejaculation, I find myself in balance, my man also depends on me."

4. Is facial ejaculation a source of pleasure?

"The pleasure is purely cerebral, for both sexes" underlines Nathalie Giraud Desforges. While man finds a physical pleasure in ejaculating, but no erogenous zone outside the male sex is invited in this practice, although the mouth remains sensitive and the face is the place of the five senses. "The excitement often comes from pornographic images that we took the time to fantasize in a personal scenario," adds the sex therapist.

Matthias, 31, has never practiced facial cumshot and does not feel the need, but this practice excites him with the simple thought: "I like the far side of facial ejaculation. Of my fantasies, that's enough for me. " Indeed, what often attracts men in this practice is usually the unconventional side. "Facial ejaculation can be perceived as indecent, and its transgressive nature gives some of the spice to the relationship," commented Alexandra Hubin.

Anthony, he, feels a full power and blush almost by confessing. Nathalie Giraud Desforges decrypts: "Men are proud of their sperm; it is their reproductive seed." "They like to see it," adds Alexandra Hubin. But it's not always the case. Thirty-year-old Thibaut once tried the facial ejaculation and has a bad memory of it: "I felt obliged to manage, I could not stand to see this girl, who seemed to like it, depending on my ability to him cum on it. " A common reaction, according to Alexandra Hubin. "It's hard to be a spectator of your sexuality," says the sexologist, "A shy man, who does not trust him, will prefer to cum in a vagina."

On the side of women, pleasure can arise from what is provoked in the other. Cathy, 30, comments: "Pleasuring my partner, it excites me in return. We are in the sharing, as in any other practice. Nathalie, 50, finds pleasure in the chosen and desired submission. She likes her man to take over. "I like to be dominated, to obey, as long as we are in a sexual game."

5. Is facial ejaculation a widespread practice?

We have a few figures. However, as Alexandra Hubin, sexologist, emphasizes, porn movies influence us, and some images can lead couples to reproduce them. "We are looking more and more to vary our practices, to find new pleasures and porn responds, in its way, to this desire to escape the routine." Couples repeat what they see on the screen to break the daily. " When Alexandra is asked if her patients are talkative about it, she is categorical: "No, very little, it must be said that couples who consult have other concerns about sex." Facial ejaculation is far from their concerns.

On the younger side, it seems that facial ejaculation is less rare. Ovidie emphasizes this, following the making of her documentary. What are girls dreaming about? "Native foxgloves see facial ejaculation as a common practice, which is better to invite into bed so as not to be considered prudes."

6. The trivialization of facial ejaculation in young people, myth or reality?

If we take a closer look at the figures from the Generation Youporn survey: myth or reality? Conducted in October 2013 by Ifop on a panel of 1000 adolescents aged 15 to 24 years, we discover that 24% of respondents said they had already completed a report by facial ejaculation. "A practice reproduced without really thinking," says Alexandra Hubin. "Young people do not consider facial ejaculation as a new pleasure to discover but as a practice that is now an integral part of sexuality and what to do." When you ask 20-year-old Agathe what she thinks about it, she looks around: "I think it's dirty, and I do not feel like the kids run after, or I'm a little disconnected. "

One wonders about the results: do teenagers practice facial ejaculation or merely claim to pretend to do "like everyone else"? Doubt is allowed. "The important thing is fun," concludes Nathalie Giraud Desforges "Accumulating sexual practices, ticking the boxes guarantees neither mutual pleasure nor better personal knowledge."

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